Traveling with a companion/lover is often viewed as the best way to travel as you have dedicated time for one another. But what about those of us who aren't in a relationship? While traveling alone has its advantages, the truth is that traveling without that special someone often just doesn't cut it.
And we know finding that special someone while on vacation generally doesn't happen, so we often end up not traveling at all.
Your concerns might also be even larger than not just having a travel companion/lover.
In the selection of one's life-mate department, you say you dropped the ball? And it turned out to be a major disillusionment, as you couldn't just simply turn around and get another relationship? You went through endless angst replaying the minutiae of what she said and what you said.
It was depressing. Also depressing is the realization that getting "good" at relationships is like anything else: it requires practice. And this kind of practice is often in short supply.
There's a solution for the problems of not having a travel companion, not being in a current relationship, and not getting the needed practice at relationships.
It's called Thailand. And thrown in as a bonus, you will also get tales to regale both friends and strangers with. Think of Thailand as an accelerated relationship course. Within a space of just a few days you can find yourself going from a fast night of sex to having a full time girlfriend.
It's not unusual that over a span of, say, two or three weeks that you connect with a girl like with no other one before; that you may very well be having the most incredible time of your life.
If relationship experiences are what you desire, Thailand is hard to beat. In Thailand you are king. Screw up your relationship? Not great but not a disaster either. You can get solace the next day (actually even sooner than that).
For a modest amount of money you can have a holiday that will be especially memorable, perhaps even life-changing.
Not only can you have all the girls you ever dreamed about, you can have a great time. Be it dancing, drinking, looking at sexy girls, sharing camaraderie, or relaxing at an open-air bar playing pool while having a sweet young thing cooing over you and ministering to your needs by applying cool moist towels to your hot neck and fevered brow.
You will have experiences that you've read about only happening to others in works of fiction. However, the difference this time is that you will be the main character. For real.
And you don't need to be a young stud muffin or have charismatic charm (it certainly doesn't hurt to have these qualities, but it isn't necessary either).
You can simply be you. The only real requirement is for you to want to have a good time. You will be surprised to find just how far a ready smile will take you.
Thailand is all about having fun; a place where every night is Saturday night. You may even discover a new you, that you are really an extrovert at heart; that you can say hello to a perfect stranger and receive a civil reply (this, from other fellow travelers. As for the Thai girls, they will be far more than merely civil...)
What is amazing is the different level of attention you receive over in Thailand. In the West, you may go to a club for the evening. You'll approach girls or they will approach you, but half of the time you either don't click or you don't find them attractive.
If you do find them attractive then you might swap numbers and talk for awhile or, if you're in especially good form that night, you might take them home, have sex, and that's it.
In the bars in Thailand the girls actually want to please, they want to massage you, they want to interact with you and they enjoy doing it. I know what you're thinking, of course you're going to get attention, these girls are after your money and they'll do whatever it takes to get it whether your 22 or 72.
Be that as it may, it's not that simple.
Women's lib hasn't made it over to Thailand. Thai girls aren't loud or brash; they are feminine and attentive. Treat your Thai girl with respect and attention (i.e., just be normal and treat her like a lady) and she will not be able to do enough for you.
She'll put toothpaste on the brush for you and wash your back. In bed she will wrap herself around you. Maybe even more than that. She might not allow you to put food on your plate in a buffet, insisting on doing it for you.
Or she might trim your already-shortened fingernails and clean your ears (you haven't lived until you have truly wax-free ears). She wants you to understand that she appreciates you. Thai girls take care of their men and it's intoxicating.
The sum of what Thailand offers is hard to beat: a rich, complex adventure fueled by randomness. Sit back and enjoy the ride. One of the nice things about Thailand is that it truly is "Up to you" (you'll hear this phrase a lot).
Many men, either by intent or by chance, do end up having relationships to some degree with the women they meet. It's easy to the point of being natural.
So why not combine travel with a relationship? You have everything to gain and only your heart to lose.
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